• Wrufieotnak@feddit.org
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        To be totally honest: I like the current divided setup for the purely selfish reason of the men’s toilet being less occupied than the women’s toilet at most places with a lot of people.

        But that would mean that in average it would be a net benefit to use non divided ones, since then the empty stalls would be used.

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      Same argument that was made for gay people sharing locker rooms, bigots never get new material. If you’re not comfortable sharing a bathroom with someone, then, ya know, you don’t have to use it.

      Why is it queer people have to suffer for bigotry? Why not just be less of a bigot?

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      10 months ago

      Guess what? Trans women also don’t feel comfortable using men’s bathrooms or sharing bathrooms with men. Because trans women are women.

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              Well unlike religion, science supports this truth. Decades of science and listening to trans people and their lived experiences.

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              Oh, are we banning Christians from bathrooms on the basis that you disagree with them? Maybe Muslims make you uncomfortable and you don’t want them near women?

              Sincerely, what is your argument here, “I don’t believe you, so what you said is invalid it’s a religion.”? Trans women are women. I don’t understand how that is a debate or why you think it’s equivalent to some religion, it’s an assertion of identity.

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            10 months ago

            Your comment was removed for endorsing transphobia, now you’re temp banned for repeating it.

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          Wow, the mods literally banned this person for saying “That’s your belief and you’re entitled to it.”

          If that’s not mod abuse to support an agenda, I don’t know what is.

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              Well, anyone who disagrees is banned so you don’t really get to see different perspectives.

              I guess it’s all intentional. You don’t want people discussing it because in your head the discussion is already done and you don’t want anyone to disagree with a conclusion that you like. Pretty scummy, but that’s to be expected.

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                There is no point debating with people whose views exist on the same side as the nazis currently occupying the US.

                Because trans women are women.

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                    Anyone who describes this as “trans” vs “normal” could do with reflecting a bit more before expecting others to engage with their views.

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                  Anyone who says they’re not a woman is banned so you’re never going to see people who contradict the trans agenda on these forums.

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          Are you implying that in public restrooms people share the same stall?

          Also the strangers thing ain’t exactly solved by having one gender bathroom is it? So that seems like a moot point to me.

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                I feel like I am having a hard time getting this across, and I don’t know why.

                Because they’re just moving the goalposts until you “slip” and say something that confirms their biases against you. Being “right” is never the goal.