Same! There’s also the reality that, as more of us divert from Christian normalcy, these guys could literally just be friends. Intimacy is a beautiful, comfortable thing, and it shouldn’t necessarily be restricted to the lover/s if the urge to snuggle and kiss is there.
There is the factor of feeling like you’re not enough for the person, feeling insignificant, but sometimes the other person feels they need something different, and that’s okay. It doesn’t mean you’re any less important to them.
Love and passion is wonderful and shouldn’t be suppressed!*
*with the obvious exceptions involving mental trauma - huge maturity gap, under 18/over 20, close blood relation etc.
Same! There’s also the reality that, as more of us divert from Christian normalcy, these guys could literally just be friends. Intimacy is a beautiful, comfortable thing, and it shouldn’t necessarily be restricted to the lover/s if the urge to snuggle and kiss is there.
There is the factor of feeling like you’re not enough for the person, feeling insignificant, but sometimes the other person feels they need something different, and that’s okay. It doesn’t mean you’re any less important to them.
Love and passion is wonderful and shouldn’t be suppressed!*
*with the obvious exceptions involving mental trauma - huge maturity gap, under 18/over 20, close blood relation etc.