afab coded question bc i feel like it takes me a minimum of 30-45 minutes, but it’s crazy bc i’m just stroking it, nothing fancy. and sometimes it’s like 1-2 hours

was curious how long folks typically spend on it, am i the only one losing a couple hours a day on average to this shit 💀💀💀

  • AdditionalIsland@lemmynsfw.com
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    25 days ago

    eh it depends. I can get off in 10 minutes pretty easily. Most days though I browse E621 for a while. I enjoy making lists of things I like (specifically lingerie). At some point I’ll feel like its time to cum then spend a few minutes doing that. I typically only cum once though

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    25 days ago

    I can do a quick 5min and be fine for the day, but to feel really satisfied is closer to 45min-1hr. I will sometimes go 2-3hr if I have the time.

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    24 days ago

    Cismale here. It varies wildly with mood and available energy.

    Happy, horny and ready for release: I can be done and cleaned in 20 minutes.

    Cognitive block and need it for the dopamine: prolly 40-60 minutes.

    Tired but happy after a weekend hiking or similar: 90-240 minutes.

    Depressed: 2-6 hrs.

    Indulging myself for full satisfaction: 2-4 hours. Maybe with another one, 20-90 minutes, depending on mood.

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    You guys must be on the pill to last this long for satisfaction, It only takes me about 15 mins to do it twice, 30 mins if I’m feeling a bit down but that’s like 3 times then I’ll be good for the day, sometimes for the whole week if I was watching some good quality shit, and it doesn’t have to be porn I’ll just be watching the Witcher for example enjoying the show and I’ll just busy one or two out to feel even better, maximize enjoyment if you know what I mean, it feels better for longer when I don’t bust on porn for some reason

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          24 days ago

          The second and third are progressively less satisfying, and by the end my dick will be sore for another day.

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            23 days ago

            My third one of the day is really just a bit of leaking precum. Not more regular load left by then

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    25 days ago

    It takes me about 90 minutes to work myself up to a really strong cumshot with a lot of force & volume. Cumming like a firehose is what makes me feel properly satisfied.

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    25 days ago

    I can cum pretty quickly when watching porn. I usually shoot for three orgasms. It’s probably only around 20 minutes of activity but there have definitely been days where I dedicate over an hour to cumming repeatedly.

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    24 days ago

    It takes me about a hour to cum twice. Takes me forever to find proper material. I just get really specific…oh well.

    Now I can’t make big loads, because I cum twice every morning.

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    25 days ago

    That’s way too long. You need to be looking at porno while you are doing it. Should be no more than 5 minutes max

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    23 days ago

    I can usually cum twice in a 10-20 minute session, I masturbate at least once a day, but I have to do 2 or 3 times a day to keep myself satisfied.

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    17 days ago

    Between 1 minute and 5 minutes. Longer than about 8 minutes I give up. I’ve often been glad I’m not a man, would be a terrible quick fuck.