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  • Hi! So ymmv, but this was my experience.

    I also had taken years to become more comfortable with sex, prior to starting hrt. I have been on hrt now for almost a year, and things have changed a lot.

    however

    The changes were all things that I was able to clearly communicate to my partner, which made it easier for her. I wasn’t confused, just knew that my body appreciates a different approach now.
    I would say that I started from an “okay” place, sexually. Now I am very confident and comfortable.

    My libido took a dive initially, but is now up to a level I am happy with. I think it’s improved since I feel more desirable now. I don’t worry anymore, “ugh, why would anyone want to have sex with that,” when I look in the mirror.















  • to have the same surgeon perform the orchi and later the vaginoplasty.

    This is really good advice, thanks.

    Have you gone to local trans support groups and spoken with any local trans women who have had an orchi?

    I have never knowingly met another trans person IRL. I’m in a pretty red area, but I’m sure there are others. I have no idea where I’d look though.

    I could always try to see how that experience goes for her and find out her surgeon if that would help… I can also DM you details of my surgeon

    I would appreciate that!