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What are the tells? I wonder now

I guess at least you’ve proven that he’s not faithful :) don’t think you’re even partially responsible for not assuming this guy had a partner he’s supposed to be in a monogamous relationship with 🤷

A guy sleeping with 100+ women is a top-tier player, a woman sleeping with 100+ dudes is a slut. How have you dealt with your reputation/other people around you? Did people “know”?

Edit: to be clear, I find the double standards really unfair, and I wonder about the pov of a woman on this

Not what you’re looking for, but I know for sure I’d wake up instantly

I think for me the main reason was mobile access. When all the reddit stuff happened one of the main thing that seemed to be staying is that 3rd party API would not have access to content marked as nsfw, which makes using an app (I was using Infinity) really weird.

I don’t know if it’s possible or not today, but that’s the main thing I’m considering when staying on Lemmy (SFW or NSFW for that matter; as Infinity looks like it’s not working anymore, and Reddit will be going only harder through its enshittification phase to go public)