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Cake day: August 16th, 2023
  • magn418@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•Aspergarian Lust LettersEnglish
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    2 years ago

    Hehe, glad it turned out quite alright for you. I guess there might be a happy ending to that story/letter. And now I get the context of your writing.

    I also really like people who are direct an honest. If it were up to me, we could skip most of the clues and hinting at things. I mean if we’re trying to convey something to another human being we can make a deliberate choice to either make it simple and just say what’s on our mind, or make it a riddle for them to solve. I like the first approach and I think it would be to the benefit of everyone if people chose to do it that way.

    Ultimately your situation is a bit different anyways… I wouldn’t dare to ask a random person for sex, it would be wrong. But if you’re already sending dick pics and talking about your cock… ¯_(ツ)_/¯ You can probably skip the social etiquette and speak your mind. They’re the right person to be honest with, or they would have ran away way earlier. (My opinion)

  • magn418@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•Aspergarian Lust LettersEnglish
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    2 years ago

    I like it. Sure, maybe it’s a bit more on the mechanical/technical side of describing the act. You could also describe the character’s emotions and how these things make them feel. But it’s not that obvious in such a short text. I think if you had given me that without a disclaimer, I wouldn’t have guessed it’s by someone who isn’t considered to be a normie…

    Especially in the realm of erotica and pornographic stories, there are so many perspectives on things, fetishes and really outstanding things people like and focus on… The word “normal” kind of looses its meaning here.

    There are guides on how to write erotica. It’s more focused to describe a scene than other kinds of fiction anyways. And I mean general tipps on storywriting apply if you want it to sound professional. Use past tense, choose a perspective from which the story is told, have a central theme and something that develops the narrative and characters and goes somewhere. But if you’re just doing it for you, you can skip all of these and just do whatever makes you happy. Except for consent of involved parties, there aren’t many rules to sexuality. There is some pressure by society, but in the end we all have to find out what we like and do that.

  • magn418@lemmynsfw.comOPtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•How do I do Cybersex?English
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    3 years ago

    Thanks for the insights. If I might ask: where are those chatrooms? Discord? IRC? Some random website? Telegram? I don’t have the slightest idea.

    I’m not really interested in dating apps or other chatrooms. I’d like to keep these things separate to manage expectations on both sides. I don’t want to hookup in real life. I also don’t want to annoy random people with internet porn. I think there should be specific places to meet for that so nobody gets upset and drawn into that without specifically signing up for it.